Challenge Myself: Day #39 The Laws of Attraction

Today is Day #39 of our Nar Anon Group Just For Today Challenge. I am also integrating the Live Happy into my Challenge. The Live Happy Challenge for today is the first of several posts on Building Happy Relationships.  Some of these posts are for those who are single while others are for those of us who are married. Today's post about  what your ideal mate would look like and about the Laws of Attraction

The book says,

If you are unattached and looking for that special someone this exercise will not only be fun but it could produce exciting results. Law of attraction experts say that when you know exactly what you want, it is easier to attract it.

Make a list of the top then physical attributes you'd like in a potential mate. If you have trouble, close you eyes and visualize that person walking toward you. What does he or she look like? What does his or her walk or gait say about him or her?

As he or she gets closer, can you tell if that person is taller than you, the same size, or shorter? If you don't like what you see, change it. Go from general observations to specific until you see him clearly in your minds eye. Now write down the ten specific physical attributes that you want. Be on the lookout for that person, now, because your thoughts may be calling him/her to you.

As I typed this out it seemed that this exercise is for singles. I thought about it for a minute and chose this exercise to list all the things that made me fall in love with my hubby way back in 1979 and remind him just how special he still is today.

JUST FOR TODAY: Allow me to recognize all of the things that made me fall in love in the first place.

From the book: Live Happy